Supporting our Adolescents

May 5, 2025

Discover how side-by-side work, meaningful challenges, and respectful guidance empower adolescents to become confident young adults.

How can adults adapt to the changing development of their adolescent? In Montessori programs, we open our hearts and minds to what is really happening for adolescents in their growth toward adulthood.

 

We have enormous respect for adolescents and the growth that happens during this stage of life. In many ways, these years are parallel to the first years of life. Just like newborns, they are gaining a great deal of learning, brain integration, and social/emotional equilibrium.

 

We must be a model for what it means to be an adult. We work to provide guidance and structure while respecting adolescents’ journey of self-construction. This stage of development is a period of reorganization, and we have the unique opportunity to positively influence and support this transformation.

 

The Montessori Adolescent Environment

 

Montessori adolescent programs typically include plans of study, social organizations, micro-economy programs, and work with nature.

 

Within these activities, adults most certainly serve a guiding purpose. However, it is essential to remember that the Montessori learning environment belongs to our adolescents. As such, we must ensure students develop concentration and independence through meaningful activities in an attractive and stimulating environment.

 

Creating this prepared environment is a vital piece of the adult’s work! So we work to uphold the following characteristics:

 

●     Designed for self-construction: Adolescents need an environment where their personal development takes priority over just producing a finished product. Whether running a microeconomy business or working on the land, we remember that the product isn’t the primary concern; rather, it’s the adolescent’s development and their self-construction.

 

●     Developmentally appropriate: Activities and experiences should align with where adolescents are in their growth to ensure engagement and relevance.

 

●     Includes materials/activities that provide appropriate challenges and opportunities for independence: Adolescents need access to tools, technology, creative outlets, and real-world applications of their learning, from garden tools to spreadsheets, from theatrical production materials to forms of publication. 

 

●     Provides Beauty and Order: While adolescents may not always maintain order, a well-organized and aesthetically pleasing environment still impacts their development and identity formation. Although adolescents experience organization as a convenience, order is necessary to operate in a microcosm of society.

 

●     Ensures Isolation of difficulty: We need to observe to know if our adolescents can use the tools at their disposal and also to plan for what lessons they need to be successful. Adolescents don’t want to be incompetent. They also don’t want to be ordered about by an adult. They need our side-by-side support.


●     Offers Limited materials: Too much choice can be overwhelming, yet the material needs to be obtainable when the task requires it. We intentionally ensure there isn’t one of everything for everyone because research shows adolescents are more productive when working with a partner.

 

●     Encourages Care (of self, others, and the environment): This is a beautiful thread in all of Montessori. As our young people approach adulthood, we support them in learning how to take of themselves so that they then have the capacity to take care of people around them and then their community and their planet. Encouraging adolescents to care for themselves, their community, and the world around them fosters responsibility and empathy.

 

The Essential Role of the Adult

 

Adults are an essential part of the prepared environment, acting as facilitators of human development. Our primary responsibilities include:

 

●     Creating Conditions for Growth: Providing experiences that develop social responsibility, justice, and dignity.

 

●     Modeling Respect and Civility: Demonstrating respect for people, living things, community spaces, and social norms.

 

●     Fostering Engagement: Encouraging participation through invitations to work, short presentations, and meaningful activities.

 

●     Encouraging Self-Construction: Allowing adolescents to take ownership of their learning while the adult remains in the background, blending into the work alongside them.

 

The Power of Observation and Patience

 

A fundamental role of the adult is to create conditions that naturally engage adolescents. This requires stepping back from unnecessary praise and criticism and allowing students to recognize their own successes and errors. Learning comes from experience, and we see mistakes as valuable opportunities for growth.

 

Ultimately, we must be aware of and sensitive to adolescents' developmental needs and characteristics. We respect their potential and understand adolescents’ need to function in a social context and their drive to become independent young adults.

 

Preparation of the Adult

 

The role of adults in a Montessori adolescent program is built on teamwork, respect, and humility. Adults must collaborate effectively, ensuring that the program serves the community of adolescents rather than personal agendas. By fostering a respectful and engaging learning environment, adults empower adolescents to become independent, confident, and socially responsible individuals.

 

Facilitating adolescent development is a significant challenge requiring deep preparation. Montessori adults must be willing to evolve, accept change, and continually refine their approach based on observation and feedback. Montessori education is powerful for this age group because the adults are constantly exploring how to creatively meet adolescents’ needs.

 

Curious to learn more about how Montessori supports stages of development in our young people? Schedule a tour!

 

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